Dear Sisters
WIN THE HEART OF THE
HUSBAND
Written by
Rakibul Islam Salafi
Kurla, Mumbai, India
Respected Ladies!
Ramadhan is a
good time to win over the hearts of your beloved husbands.
They say: “The
way to a man’s heart is his stomach” That is a pretty accurate statement. Feed
him well and he is yours. (Gents! Make her a nice kitchen and she is yours. A
woman needs a nice kitchen with all facilities.)
Some ladies
feel that Ramadhan is for worship only, so the family has to be content with
whatever is available, and that they should not waste time in the kitchen. Therefore,
they just worship and they are not careful about iftaar etc.
However, that’s
not true. The time spent in the kitchen is not wasted. It’s worthwhile and It’s
time well spent, because as the saying goes ‘Khidmat se khuda milta he, Ibadat
se jannat” i.e., with servitude we get Allah, with worship we get just
paradise. So, when you work hard to feed your kids and look after your
husbands, you are actually striving for the pleasure of Allah.
One Hadith says
“Whichever woman’s death comes while her husband is well pleased with her, will
definitely enter Jannah.” (Tirmidi)
عَنْ
أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَيُّمَا
امْرَأَةٍ مَاتَتْ وَزَوْجُهَا عَنْهَا رَاضٍ دَخَلَتِ الْجَنَّةَ
(1078 جامع الترمذي كتاب الجمعة
أبواب السفر)
So, learn how to cook properly, avoid ordering takeaways, cook
some delicious food for the family and reap both benefits; winning over your
husbands and attaining Allah’s pleasure.
Yes! Don’t
overdo things and don’t waste time in making things which require too much time
and effort, things which can be cooked outside Ramadhan. Use time wisely for
some tilaawat, tasbeehaat, and duas as well.
May Allah make
the fasts and household work easy for our ladies and reward them in full for
the amazing efforts they make in keeping everything in order for iftaar and suhoor.
Ameen.
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